i never go on this thing.

btw we FiNALLY got a Nintendo Wii.

khuz our N64 died on us.

On relationships and what not...

* Don't think in terms of forever. Think of now, and forever will take care of itself.
* Grow up together, constantly.
* Expect to invest a great deal of time and energy in your relationship. Lasting relationships don't just happen, they are created.
* Recognize that all relationships cannot be forever.
* Recognize their temporary quality, but continue to act as if they are permanent.
* Respect the other person's relationships apart from you. If they are important to the one you care about, they should be important to you.
* Never idealize others. They will never live up to your expectations.
* Take your time.
* Remove price tags from people. Everyone has worth; the excitement lies in the discovery of their value.
* Don't be afraid of giving. You can never give too much, if you're giving willingly.
* Don't feel as if you are required to spend every waking hour with those you love. Move aside from time to time and allow them a separate space too.
* Never force anyone to do anything for you in the name of love. Love is not to bargained for.
* Don't overanalyze your relationships.
* Realize that you always have choices. It's up to you.
* Remember that a relationship is a pooling of resources. It means that with each relationship you are not only giving, but you are becoming more.
* Don't allow relationships to burden your heart; rather use it to become more aware and sensitive.
* Don't smother each other. No one can grow in shade.
* Don't lose in touch with the craziness in you. This, with a large dose of caring, will assure that your relationship will never be boring.
* Don't brood. Get on with living and loving. You don't have forever.
* Don't hold on to anger. they steal your energy and keep you from love.
* There are times when you want to give up on a relationship but never give up on relating.
* Learn to listen. You don't learn anything from hearing yourself talk.
* Expect what is reasonable, not what is perfect.
* Write down all the reasons why you love each person you relate with.
* Then, when the going gets tough, take the list out and reread it. It resolves problems quickly.
* After an argument is over, forget it. Don't become involved in pettiness, ego and childish hurts. Those will only serve to degrade your relationship and prevent closeness.
* Learn to bend. It's better than breaking.
* Since love can be created, there is no reason to be loveless.
* Even though you are only half of a relationship, you must remain a whole person, apart from the relationship.
* Remember that moral and spiritual values don't restrict, they protect.
* Don't fall in love with love, you'll die with its complexities.
* Don't allow your relationships to die of neglect.

im such a loser. >.<